Thursday, September 23, 2010

9.16.2010 . 9.22.2010

We always wonder, from where these come, where they go, how to handle. Which called 'Feelings' or in technical word 'Human Connections'.

This week, I stayed at home for an extended weekend. Extended weekend provides you always some extra, like extra relax, extra time with family, extra-extra. I too, thought extra this week about a custom of my community or better village tradition.

We all are having relatives, and when we talk about a community like a village or mohalla we share joy and sorrow together. Tradition is quite in same way, when a person passes away, all relatives and belonged villagers come to visit that family. This is 13 days long event, people come and share their bore(II form of bear) experiences, how to overcome pain of a young lose and how to give thanks to HIM for an old.

We too have visitors when our Grandmother passed away. I guess around 4000 people came in total. When we talked on these events people are more pure at heart. Because that time the conversion is about our feelings which are somehow monitored by heart.

So, in this same area 'feelings', I did a deep dive and explored some extra perspective for me. In our Veds or Puraans, people have described five kinds of bad feelings. "Lust (काम), Anger (क्रोध), Ego (मद), Obsession (मोह) and Greed (लोभ)." Its well know truth that a person who overcomes all these should be called a 'saint (संत).

My exploration was how and when we have good feeling, for that I took a long walk towards my green fields with high plants बाजरा and अरहर.

First thing I found was that when we have strong feeling good or bad we feel free, mind doesn't think about future or past and there is a lot of motivation to go with the feeling. And when we have less strong feeling we feel insecure doesn't matter feeling is good/bad. Our mind makes conclusions and retrospect simultaneously.

Controlling bad and sharing good feelings will always make your life paths brighter, shorten the distance to destiny, empower you to be connected and most of all feel secure.

You will find all research about feeling in my book in details and how to separate feelings if you are having mixed ones. Also the best ways (well according to me they are best :) ) to control them. I will be writing in incoming blogs.

Along with this extra, I did some extra work for office as one of my colleague was on leave. Waited to meet the next weekend when I was going out again on exploration of a villager Mind.

With love...

कितनी भी बार सोचलो, कितनी भी बार समझलो,
कितनी भी बार छोड़ दो, कितनी भी बार जोड़ लो,
ये दिल की बातें नहीं होती कभी भी आसाँ,
ये होती है सीधे की सीधी, चाहे कितनी ही बार मोड़ लो.....

Thursday, September 16, 2010

9.8.2010 . 9.15.2010

I think, I should change the tile 'Life in weekly status' to something else. There is nothing to share on each week. I have an idea, lets make it "weekly mind changes' or 'I am addicted to blogging'... pls suggest something......

Season was changing now, amount of rain was decreasing these days. I heard news about dam broke and water was in rivers. Because of this, the water level increased in north Rajasthan. The 2 dams were built for water supply to Jaipur but due to no water in rivers the villages and towns were facing water deficiency. I can't support this kind of way of government to support urbanization and destroying crops and making fields barren.

 One of my school friend 'Raju' visited my home this weekend. He was on his business tour. When he reached Behror, it was moonlighted night. We tried to switch off our bike's light and the environment was more brighter then our bike's headlamp. It was amazing experience, switching off and on the lights and feel the change.

I always enjoyed taking bath in tube-well water. It is always at the pleasing temperature to take a warm bath. I hope Raju might have enjoyed this too. We shared a lot of thoughts about purpose of mankind and a family member.

In past I have started watching many comedy TV serials. Now a days I am regular to "How I Met Your Mother'. Its a classic with humor and friendship events. I usually download the weekly episode in night and watch with bed tea. I was very much involved in the serial "That 70's Show'. I liked very much the 'Seinfeld' it has very light humor that I have used many times even in my life.

I was increasing my social skill via internet and meeting with people, and believe there is a lot more then facebooking !!

I have visited Alwar and ordered a suit. I am increasing compatibility between my responsibilities and my hobbies. I think this is right time to fulfill both, this way I feel more happy.

I didn't share any quotes from my book in this blog, as you may have seen reading through. I thought all the time teaching will not be helpful until unless you have time to share things which makes people comfortable.

If anyone likes TV shows/serials, I would like to suggest 'Seinfeld' is must watch.

With love....

(Old Loving lines)

किसी की मुस्कुराहटों पे हो सके तो हो निशार, किसी का दर्द ले सके तो ले उधार,
किसी के वास्तें हो तेरे दिल में प्यार... जीना इसी का नाम है....

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

9.1.2010 . 9.7.2010

Month of September started. Do you know it is highest birth-rate month, I leave this up you to find out.

In Rajasthan and Haryana rainy season continues. I planted many trees in my home and all are sprouting with the expected rate. But this rain is harming field 's crop'बाजरा'.

Days are not excited now. I visit so frequently my home that I lost the feeling of Nostalgia. We feel excited when there is change of feelings from bad-to-good or vice-versa.

There were many idea to start a new work. The work that belongs to me, and it was hard to find what actually inside me.

Life is simple but we have to learn living it only through tough way. Thats how HE designed a human life, even for all creatures. But sometimes people violet this rule, take shortcuts, and meet with only failure. Someone may find this successful but its all illusion.

Same thing was happening to me. I believed that arrange marriages are simple and easy. I felt that I left behind from where people stand now, even though my thoughts are firms, futuristic and logical.

I realized that very wise people designed social rules in every region of the world. All cultures are having different people, locations, customs and way of communications. But all have some common rules, the rules which have saved humans to be destroyed.

 Like, marriage is very simple example. Another is education.

My motivation was going down towards completing my book, which I have started in random collective chapters'. Meanwhile, I read a small story, which surely motivate all of us to continue our beloved work.

"There was a person dreamer and writer. He started writing many talented stories, theories and art work. Once he started one thing, in between he found another idea and left the previous one. Thus he started many things but didn't complete even a single item. After his death people researched his articles and work, and concluded the this world lost a very talented man but his talent is not worthy."

So, accomplishment of the work should be the sole purpose of starting one, if you want to shine.

With love...

सहिलो पे सजी थी किस्तिया, फिर भी दरिया में डूब कर हम पार आये,
बने हुए थे express highways, फिर भी हमको कच्चे पथरीले रास्तें ही पाए;
नहीं मिलता अनुभव यहाँ पर, किसी मुसाफिर की कहानियां सुनकर,
ठोखर खाकर ही सीखा जाता है इस ज़माने में, तभी तो हम इन उजालो में आये !!